How To Get Better in Bed: The LOVE Team’s Best Tips

As the year winds down, many of us ponder what we could improve in our lives in general. Better sex, being a vital part of a healthy and fulfilling love life, often tops the list of New Year's resolutions. But how does one become a better lover? Many assume it comes naturally or that experience is enough. In reality, knowledge and the willingness to experiment are much more important. In this article, the LOVE Team shares our 15 best tips to excel in bed in 2025. You'll find all the info you need to dazzle your partner during your next partner play session. So without any further ado, let’s jump right in!

Before you can fully satisfy your partner, you’ll need to get in touch with your own desires. Masturbation isn't just about immediate gratification; it's also about exploring what you truly enjoy. By experimenting with different solo techniques, you'll learn how to better guide your partner in bed.

Start by exploring your erogenous zones with your hands, whether that's through fingering yourself or manual stroking. Mix it up by trying different sex toys or even household items. And, of course, make sure to lock the door if you live with parents or flatmates, or even your partner (who, once you've gained confidence, might even enjoy the show).

To give a maximum amount of pleasure to your partner, mastering the art of foreplay is vital. Getting your partner all revved up before the main event is a must! Whether it's with a handjob, blowjob, cunnilingus, a titty wank, or mutual masturbation, the possibilities are endless.

To spice things up, you could even reconsider what the idea of “foreplay” is. For example, have you ever considered simulating a threesome with a sex doll or a sex torso, adding a third “person” to your bedroom dynamic without the messy drama? Let your imagination run wild and explore new ways to stimulate your partner.

Improving your sex life means stepping out of your comfort zone and experimenting with new sexual positions. If you usually stick to a routine missionary, why not give girl-on-top, doggy style, or facesitting a go? There are countless positions you may have never tried.

Here's a fun idea: give your partner a copy of the Kama Sutra for Christmas and spend a sexy evening leafing through the book to explore the different positions together. You might find it hard to keep your hands off each other!

And it’s not just about positions—it's about locations too! Dare to do it in unusual places, like out in public (discreetly, of course), in the car… If you've only been doing it in your bed, there's a whole world out there to explore (safely and within the law, naturally)!

To increase your partner’s pleasure in bed, you’ll need to learn how to stimulate two often overlooked but highly sensitive erogenous zones: the G-spot in women and the P-spot (prostate) in men. These areas can trigger explosive orgasms when massaged correctly.

Use your fingers or sex toys specifically designed to reach these spots, such as G-spot vibrators and prostate massagers. Check out our tips on G-spot and prostate to know how to do it right and maximise your partner's pleasure.

If you’ve been mostly enjoying vanilla sex up until now, try to step out of your regular routine and explore new kinks. Many think kinks are reserved for “weirdos”, but there's a whole wide world of kinks that might intrigue you if you open your mind.

For instance, medical play, fétichisme de l'imprégnation, exophilia, or the world of furries might seem intimidating at first. But why not explore these worlds in a “softer” way? If medical play with a speculum seems too hardcore at first, start with some doctor-patient role play. If the furry world seems too much, try a tail butt plug to add a twist to traditional sex.

Of course, as with any sexual activity, your partner's consent is crucial. The idea is to shift your perspective on sex to avoid routine and discover new kinds of pleasures.

To spice up your sex life in 2025, why not start a joint sex project? Much like planning a real estate venture or a travel adventure, planning a sex project will allow you to work together for the common good.

Here are some ideas for projects: work toward climaxing at the same time, experiment with slow sex or speed fucking, try out edging, or watch a porn film together.

If you're feeling a little more ambitious? Dare to try teabagging, a rainbow kiss, or even fisting. You can even have multiple projects on your "to-do list" to keep things exciting throughout the year. The key is to have fun and discover new ways of getting off together.

Don't underestimate the power of lube! Many think you only need to use lube for anal sex, the first time you have sex, or if you’re a menopausal woman. Not so! Lube can enhance any lovemaking session. A bit of lube creates a pleasant glide, reducing uncomfortable friction and increasing your pleasure.

There's a wide variety of lubes out there, like flavoured lubes (perfect for delicious blowjobs) or warming lubes for hot sensations (ideal for temperature play). The first step is to find the right lube for you, as there's truly the perfect lube out there for everyone.

The sexiest sex is safe and worry-free sex! Especially in a new relationship or a one-night stand, using a condom and, ideally, having an additional form of contraception is a must to eliminate any risk of pregnancy. The sexiest part of a sexual encounter is truly immersing yourself in the experience, and if you're worried about the consequences, you won't fully enjoy yourself.

Don’t hesitate to discuss your contraception options with your partner, but most importantly, take charge of your own sexual health by providing your own contraception for every session. If you think sex is the cards for the evening, don’t forget to slip a condom into your bag or wallet.

Feeling attractive can make all the difference in bed. Taking care of your appearance will give you the confidence to be more assertive and adventurous during your most intimate moments. This starts with good intimate hygiene: groom your pubic hair, use suitable care products, and wear sexy underwear or lingerie that flatters you.

When you feel good in your skin, you'll be more receptive to your partner's touches and more open to exploring new sensations. This self-assurance will shine through in all of your interactions, making your intimate moments even more intense and satisfying for both of you.

For consistently great sexy sessions, take good care of your erotic toys. A quality sex toy can transform your intimate moments, but what's the point if your favourites are in poor condition? Hygiene is crucial, not just for your health, but also to extend the lifespan of your sex toys.

Check out our how-to guides on cleaning and sterilise your sex toys, along with specific tips for male toys. Don't let poor hygiene ruin the fun. Plus, proper care will protect your investment. Don't forget to store your sex toys in a suitable place to keep them in top shape.

To boost your sexual performance and pleasure, consider reducing your alcohol and tobacco intake. These habits can significantly impact your sexual health. For men, drinking too much alcohol and smoking can affect their performance in bed, while for women, they can decrease pleasure.

It's time to think about other resolutions that will improve your life in multiple ways. By taking care of your health, you'll be able to fully enjoy your intimate moments and enhance your sex life.

Sex isn't just about physical gratification; it's also a chance to lovingly express your affection for your partner through the intimate closeness you share. Communication between partners is key, as are the daily acts of kindness and surprises.

By nurturing a healthy and happy relationship, your intimate moments will be all the more passionate. Take care of your partner and let them know how much your relationship means to you. You'll find that this emotional connection makes your encounters even more intense.

The real secret to happiness in bed? Having fun! Sex isn't meant to be serious; it's meant to be a relaxing and enjoyable time together. So, have a blast! Experiment with erotic games, share jokes, and keep the mood light. It's in this kind of atmosphere that you'll experience the most satisfying encounters of your life.

We genuinely hope these tips help refresh your intimate life, whether you're single or in a committed relationship. Feel free to explore our blog archive, buyer's guides, or how-to guides to discover all our valuable advice. And if you have specific questions, feel free to reach out directly to the LOVE Team – we're here to help you create unforgettable moments!