How To Give a Good Blowjob

There's something incredibly intimate about oral sex—it can even feel more personal than vaginal or anal sex. But with that intimacy can come a bit of nerves, especially if you're feeling unsure about your skills or worried about making it amazing for your partner. Don't stress! We've got your back. Like anything worth doing, practice makes perfect. With our guidance and a bit of fun trial and error, you'll be a blowjob queen before you know it.

Oral sex offers tons of benefits, making it a popular choice for many couples. For starters, it doesn't require vaginal or anal penetration, which can be handy if you're on your period or not in the mood for penetrative sex. Plus, you don't need to strip down completely, making it perfect for a quickie, a spontaneous moment, or even a thrilling public encounter. Imagine the adrenaline rush and shared excitement in a discreet but stimulating setting!

Blowjobs also provide a unique opportunity to express your creativity and sexuality in a different way. It's a chance to show your love and affection for your partner while serving as an incredibly exciting kind of foreplay. It can even be the main event, depending on what you and your partner are feeling. The variety of sensations and techniques you can explore makes each experience unique and memorable.

Lastly, blowjobs eliminate the risk of pregnancy, but it's crucial to note that they don't protect against STIs. Using a condom is a good idea if you're unsure about your partner's health status. Safety and well-being are vital for fully enjoying this intimate moment.

Ready to give your partner a blowjob they won’t forget? Follow these detailed tips to turn the moment into an intense, pleasure-filled experience. Whether you’re a beginner or looking to refine your technique, these pointers will guide you through a successful blowjob.

To make a blowjob truly unforgettable, start by creating the perfect atmosphere. Put on some sultry music, dim the lights, and light a few candles. Why not add a little striptease to really get your partner going? Some dirty talk can work wonders too. Whisper about past encounters or what you want to do to them. The more you turn them on, the more they'll enjoy every touch and technique you use.

If you're feeling a bit nervous, begin by revving up your partner's arousal by stimulating their erogenous zones with your hands. Remove their trousers (or ask them to do it) and start teasing with your fingers or hands. Check out our tips on giving a great handjob for more ideas. Don't rush—you want to build tension and anticipation.

Find a comfortable position for both you and your partner for the main event. Comfort is key to fully enjoying the experience. The position will depend on the context: at home, in private, you have plenty of options, but in a more constrained setting, you might need to improvise. Don’t hesitate to switch positions midway to keep things exciting and varied.

Begin softly by licking his tip or testicles, as well as the sensitive areas around his genitals, like his inner thighs. You can also plant soft kisses on his favourite erogenous zones. Ease into the blowjob by very gently sucking just the tip of his penis, mixing it up with flicks of your tongue against his frenulum. This gradual approach builds excitement in a subtle yet effective way.

Slide his entire penis into your mouth, being careful of your teeth. His penis is highly sensitive, especially just underneath the frenulum. It's completely normal if you can't take the whole length at first. Start slowly, stimulating just half of his shaft. This approach will help you get comfortable gradually and avoid any discomfort.

Now, start moving your mouth up and down, varying the suction and rhythm based on your partner's reactions. Use your lips to create a gentle yet firm pressure around his penis, alternating between slow, deep movements and faster, shallower ones. Keep communicating throughout to adjust your technique and maximise your partner's pleasure.

You may think that more suction equals more pleasure, but too much pressure may cause your partner discomfort. Always listen to your partner and find the sweet spot. Always ask him for feedback to understand what's working best and what could be improved. Open communication is key to a mutually satisfying experience.

We often have a stereotypical idea of what a blowjob should be, but it's definitely possible to switch up your technique as you go. Alternate between sucking, licking, kissing, and even changing positions. You can also switch between using your hand and your mouth. There are no set rules—it's all about what your partner enjoys. With more experience, you'll gain confidence and can explore new sensations to make each moment unique and unforgettable.

Once you're comfortable with blowjobs, you might want to explore the world of deepthroating. This more intense technique involves taking the penis deep into your throat. For more details, check out our how-to guide on deepthroating.

We hope these tips help you give your partner unforgettable blowjobs. Take things at your own pace and, most importantly, have fun! If you need more tips or advice, don't hesitate to reach out to the LOVE Team. We're here to support you on your pleasure journey.