1. Truth or Dare
Dares:
- Kiss a particularly sensitive area of your partner's body.
- Remove an item of clothing of your choice.
- Perform a striptease for your partner.
- Give your partner an erotic massage.
- Use an erotic toy (handcuffs, whip, etc.) with your partner.
Truths:
- Reveal to your partner a fantasy that has always excited you.
- Reveal an erotic secret you've never shared.
- Describe your first sexual experience.
- Describe the last time you thought erotically about your partner.
These examples may inspire you to think up even wilder ideas! Remember that it is essential to respect your partner’s boundaries. Before starting the game, check with your partner that they really do want to play the game and respect their limits. The aim of the game is to communicate with your lover and learn something new about them.
2. Role Playing
Here are some examples of erotic role-playing games that will give your libido a boost:
- The teacher and the pupil: seduction and discipline.
- The patient and the nurse: tender care and medication.
- The policeman and the criminal: arrest and interrogation.
- The master and the slave: authority and submission.
- The boss and the secretary: temptation and power.
3. Strip Poker
- Agree with your partner on the rules of the game: betting limits and which clothes can be removed.
- Start playing.
- Each time a player loses a hand, they must remove the item of clothing of their choice.
- The game continues until only one player remains clothed.
4. App-controlled sex toys
App-controlled sex toys allow couples to maintain a healthy sex life from a distance. Simply download the toy’s app on your smartphone, and you’ll be able to control your partner’s sex toy via bluetooth or the Internet. There are many different kinds of app-controlled toys, including vibrators, prostate massagers, butt plugs, Ben Wa balls, and more.
Here's how to use an app-controlled sex toy:
- Download the app on your smartphone or computer and sync your device to the toy.
- Once connected, explore the toy's different features, like the vibration speeds/modes, pre-set programs, special features, etc.
- Some app-controlled toys even have a "voice chat" feature, so both partners can communicate remotely while using the toy.
- You can share control of the toy with your partner, whether you are in the same room or on the other side of the world.
By using an app-controlled toy, you’ll keep the flame alive, even if your partner is on the other side of the world!
5. Aphrodisiac foods and blindfolds
Aphrodisiac foods are delicious to eat and will get you in the mood! Strawberries, oysters, chocolate, asparagus and nuts are all known aphrodisiacs.
- Choose a few aphrodisiac foods for your partner and serve them on a platter.
- Blindfold your partner and feed them the food with your hands.
- Use aphrodisiac foods for naughtier purposes (pour chocolate syrup on your partner’s body and lick it off, use whipped cream during oral sex, etc).
Don't forget to consider your partner's possible allergies or food intolerances before you start: ending your romantic evening in the emergency room will make your date memorable for all the wrong reasons!