How to Enjoy BDSM Medical Play
You might not always enjoy a trip to the doctor in everyday life, but have you ever considered bringing that doctor-patient dynamic into your sex life? Let’s explore the fascinating world of medical play and discover why so many people are drawn to it within a BDSM relationship.
Medical play, also known as medical fetishism, is a kind of BDSM where two partners engage in role-play scenarios with one acting as a medical professional and the other as a patient. Typically, this dynamic involves a dominant partner playing the role of the doctor or nurse, and a submissive partner taking on the role of the patient. This type of play allows partners to have fun with a specific theme. Like all BDSM practices, medical play requires solid communication and a relationship built on consent.
Fans of medical play often enjoy it for the intense physical sensations it can deliver, such as in the case of estim play or temperature play, as well as the elements of power, shame, and humiliation. It’s a very creative way to express yourself sexually.
The importance of communication
Communication between both partners in a BDSM relationship is vital. It's the cornerstone of any healthy and safe practice. In medical play, as with any other form of BDSM, you’ll need to make sure beforehand that everything is consensual. Before starting a session, you should discuss your expectations, limits, and desires. That way, everyone will be totally comfortable with what's about to happen.
Establishing a safeword is a must. A safeword is a word or phrase that the submissive partner can say at any time to immediately stop the session. This word should be clear and distinct to avoid any confusion. It ensures that everyone feels safe and respected throughout the session.
After the session, it's also important to practice aftercare. Aftercare involves looking after your partner post-session, discussing what happened, holding them tenderly, and making sure everything is okay. It's a crucial moment for strengthening trust and the bond between partners. Practicing aftercare ensures that everyone feels good both physically and emotionally after your medical play session.
The most popular medical role-play scenarios to try out
Medical play offers a number of role-play scenarios that can be explored to add a unique and exciting dimension to your sex life. Here are some of the most typical scenarios you can try to experience the fascinating world of medical fetishism.
The gynaecologist
This scenario involves a visit to an especially curious gynaecologist who will explore your vaginal area thoroughly. Lie back on the bed, spread your legs, and let your dominant partner examine you. Use a speculum, a medical tool designed to spread the vagina for a better view of your most intimate area.
Your partner can also use a vibrator or a clit stimulator on your external erogenous zones while asking you how the stimulation feels. To add an element of orgasm denial, they can stop the stimulation just as you're about to climax, creating intense sexual tension. This tease-and-denial play can be incredibly exciting and really spice up your medical play experience.
The proctologist
This role-play scenario is perfect for anyone looking to explore the anal region. Simply get down on all fours to give your partner easy access to your anus. The dominant partner can use latex gloves for hygiene purposes.
The "proctologist" can start by gently exploring your anal area with their fingers, then with their tongue. As the session gets hotter, they can use an anal toy for more intensity. Your session might even culminate in anal sex, if you desire.
The sperm donor
In this scenario, the submissive man visits the medical office to donate sperm. He needs help because he's unsure how to proceed. The dominant partner can then give him instructions in a stern and authoritative tone.
To kick things up a notch, if the sub still can't manage on his own, the dominant partner, playing the role of the nurse, can give him a handjob to complete the task. While stimulating him, the nurse can degrade him in a humiliating context or use dirty talk in a more lighthearted and playful way.
The psychiatrist
In this scenario, the submissive partner plays the role of a patient visiting their psychiatrist. The dominant partner, acting as the psychiatrist, has the patient lie down on a couch and begins asking a series of intimate questions. They encourage the patient to explore all their fantasies, even the steamiest ones.
As the fantasies are shared, the tension builds, making it more and more difficult to maintain control. The session may evolve into a passionate sexual encounter where your deepest desires are finally expressed and fulfilled.
The vet
Why limit yourself to human medical professionals? Here's an original scenario: the veterinarian! This type of role-play is a variant of puppy play, a specific area of BDSM where one partner takes on the role of a dog. To get into character, you can use a dog mask, muzzle, tail plug, collar, and leash.
Then, the dominant partner, playing the role of the vet, examines the "dog." Both partners stay in character, with the vet trying to tame and care for the beast.
The mad scientist
For fans of Frankenstein, here's a captivating scenario: the mad scientist. This role-play uses electrosex toys to add an exciting dimension to your experience.
The submissive partner plays the role of a corpse at the start of the session, while the dominant partner, acting as the mad scientist, attaches estim toys (like a cock ring or nipple clamps) to the corpse's body. The scientist gradually increases the intensity of the current to attempt to revive the corpse.
By the end of the scenario, the corpse awakens and expresses gratitude towards its creator. This scenario requires thorough communication, including the use of a non-verbal safeword gesture so the corpse can communicate their sensations and limits at any time.
Medical play offers you a number of different possibilities for reviving your sex life. Whether you're drawn to intense physical sensations or power and submission games, this type of role-play can add a unique and exciting touch to your intimate life. Remember, communication and consent are essential to ensure a healthy and enjoyable experience for all partners.
Enjoy exploring the world of medical play, always within an environment of respect and consent. If you have any hesitations or questions, don't hesitate to reach out to our LOVE Team for all the advice you might need.