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Midway between fetishism and domination, face sitting is still a little known sexual act. Curious to find out more? In this article, the LOVE Team spills all!
What is face-sitting?
Face sitting is a sexual act that involves sitting on your partner's face. Face sitting is often associated with BDSM role play, where the Dom sits on the face of their sub to assert authority over them. However, it is perfectly possible to enjoy face sitting in more traditional sexual relationships.
Why is it so exciting?
Doms love face sitting, as the act gives them total control over their sub. By sitting on their sub's face, they can control their partner’s breathing and even their movements. The dom, in turn, will be aroused by having to endure their Dom’s power.
There is also a physical factor that accounts for the pleasure of face sitting, especially the smell and heat of the genitals (or anus) of the seated partner. These stimuli will sharpen the sub’s senses and increase their desire. The sub is also in the perfect position to stimulate their partner’s genital or anus through oral sex (cunnilingus, fellatio, anilingus) or manual play.
Face-sitting is still considered taboo in certain circles, but it's certainly worth trying out, as it combines sensorial play with the excitement of doing something naughty.
How can I safely practice face-sitting with my partner?
1. Have a long talk beforehand
Agree on your limits before you even begin the session. Your partner should be able to express their expectations, desires and boundaries, and vice versa. Is everyone in agreement about how the session will go? Do you trust your partner? Once these questions have been answered, an atmosphere of safety and trust will be established, and you will be able to begin your session with complete peace of mind.
2. Find the right position
The sub should lie on a comfortable bed or sofa. The Dom will then sit on the sub’s face. The Dom can hold on to the wall or headboard to keep his balance.
3. Adjust the rhythm and intensity of the movements
We recommend that you start slowly and then gradually increase the speed and rhythm of your movements. Don't forget to check with your partner that they’re enjoying the session. Stop immediately if you notice any discomfort or displeasure.
4. Create a safe word
Before the session starts, decide on a safeword with your partner. If either partner utters the safeword during the session, everyone must stop what they’re doing immediately. To avoid any ambiguity, the chosen word should be totally random and have nothing to do with sex.
5. Debrief with your partner after the session
After your session, share your impressions with your partner. Did you enjoy yourself, or did it make you feel uncomfortable? Would you like to do it again? What improvements could be made? It's important to listen to your partner and respect their feelings. The next session will be all the better for it!
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