How to Jerk Off: Our Step-By-Step Guide To Male Masturbation

Ready to elevate your solo play to new heights? Whether you're a beginner or a self-pleasure expert, our tips will guide you to a much more satisfying masturbation experience. Discover how to better understand your body and explore new sensations for moments of pure bliss.

Wanking is natural and beneficial for a man’s health and well-being. The truth is, masturbation is much less taboo than it once was. So why not talk about it openly and honestly? With this guide, the LOVE Team will walk you through the ideal masturbation session, step by step. We'll be giving you practical advice on preparation, tools, and techniques to make your solo time even more enjoyable. There's no one-size-fits-all rule here; what matters is doing what suits you best. Get ready to uncover new sensations for even more satisfying experiences.

1. Find a safe, quiet spot

Finding a peaceful corner for a wank can be tricky, especially if you live with parents or flatmates. But it's of utmost importance to find a place where you feel safe and comfortable. Ideally, choose a room that locks to avoid unfortunate interruptions. Installing a lock on your bedroom door can be a great solution for enjoying the comfort of your own bed. If you share a room, the bathroom or shower can also be good options. The key is to choose a spot where you feel at ease and relaxed.

2. Equip yourself with the right tools

For an optimal experience, you’ll have to find the right tools for the job. A good lube, preferably a water-based formula, is a must-have for more natural and enjoyable sensations. Using lube will reduce uncomfortable friction while increasing the glide between your hand and your penis, mimicking the feel of a real sexual encounter. If you fancy, have a porn video ready on your phone or another device to stimulate your imagination. Lastly, keep some tissues nearby to clean up your body or sheets afterwards, especially if you're not in the shower.

3. Start with simple moves

To begin, nothing beats the classic up-and-down movement. Wrap your hand around the shaft of your penis and start moving it up and down gently. This simple gesture will allow you to experiment with speed and pressure. Take all the time you need to discover what brings you the most pleasure and adjust your technique based on how you feel.

4. Experiment with other techniques

To mix things up, try these more advanced wanking techniques

Try “edging”: This technique involves getting close to orgasm and then stopping the stimulation abruptly to prolong your pleasure
Change the pressure and rhythm: Alternate between fast and slow movements, and change the amount of pressure on your penis to explore different sensations.
Use your non-dominant hand: Wanking with your non-dominant hand can offer different sensations and help vary your pleasure. This method can create unique sensations as your non-dominant hand is generally less accustomed to masturbation movements. Plus, training your non-dominant hand can also improve your overall dexterity.
Close your fist: Grip your penis with a closed fist and make slow, steady movements.
Stimulate the tip: Focus on the glans of your penis by making circular movements with your thumb and index finger. If it's too sensitive, don't hesitate to use lubricant
Fantasise: Mental stimulation can intensify excitement, pleasure, and the resulting orgasm. Fantasies allow you to explore desires and scenarios without taboos, enriching your masturbation experience.

Try out these different techniques to discover what feels right to you.

5. Clean up after yourself!

After your solo play session, don't forget to clean up properly. Right afterward, wiping yourself off with a tissue might do, but it's best to take a shower or at least rinse the area. This is why the bathroom is an excellent choice for solo play! If your semen has come into contact with sheets or other fabrics, don't worry, it will easily wash out in the laundry (as will water-based lube). If you've used a shared space, make sure to leave it as clean as you found it, for everyone's comfort and hygiene.

6. Add a sex toy for men to your fun

Once you've mastered manual masturbation, why not try a session with a male sex toy, or several? Here are some ideas:

Cock ring: This toy will make your penis larger and harder during erection, while delaying your orgasm and making it more intense.
butt plug or prostate massager: These accessories can offer intense and unique sensations.
Masturbator or pocket pussy: Equipped with a realistic and textured orifice, these toys offer sensations that mimic a real encounter.
Sex doll: For an even more realistic experience, a lifelike sex doll will make you feel like you’re with a real partner.

Feel free to explore these different options to enhance your solo sessions and discover new kinds of pleasure.

Knowing how to masturbate manually is the first step, but adding sex toys to your solo play will make these moments even more enjoyable! Explore our buyer’s guide on How to Choose Your First Male Sex Toy to find the perfect toy for you. Remember, the LOVE Team is always here to help you. Feel free to contact us with any questions or for additional advice. Have fun making the most of your solo moments!