Discovering that intimate photos or videos have been shared without your consent can be a devastating shock. Revenge porn is, unfortunately, all too common. If you've been targeted, it's crucial to know how to respond. Here's a guide to help you through this tough situation.
Revenge porn, also known as Intimate Image Abuse, is a form of digital violence that can have devastating consequences. In this article, we'll start by defining what revenge porn is, then explore what UK law says about it. After that, we'll guide you through the steps to take for effective action. This experience can be humiliating and traumatic, but know that you're not alone, and help is available.
What is revenge porn, exactly?
Revenge porn can take various forms. Often, it happens after a difficult breakup, with the perpetrator seeking revenge by sharing intimate images or videos to humiliate and shame their victim. Sometimes, it's used for extortion – known as sextortion – where intimate photos are sent to someone who turns out to be a catfishing cybercriminal.
Perpetrators might also share these images with friends for 'fun'. Typically, the images or videos were obtained in a trusting relationship, with the victim's consent. Revenge porn includes not just shared images and videos, but also sexual messages, often called sexting. You should know that even private exchanges can fall under this offence if shared with others without the person's consent.
What does UK law have to say about revenge porn?
Unfortunately, revenge porn is becoming more frequent in today's tech-driven world. However, UK law does provide justice for victims. Revenge porn is classified as a sexual offence under the Criminal Justice and Courts Act 2015, with penalties including up to two years in prison and a substantial fine. In Scotland, that prison term can extend up to five years.
A crucial aspect of building a case for revenge porn is demonstrating the perpetrator's intent to cause distress to their victim. It's also essential for the victim to show that they did not consent to the distribution of their intimate photos.
In cases of sextortion, where the perpetrator expects payment to halt the distribution of intimate images, additional charges and fines may apply due to the expected financial gain.
What should I do if I become a target for revenge porn?
If you've become a target of revenge porn, here are the steps you should take (please note that this advice is UK-specific):
Keep proof
It's vital to maintain evidence of the distribution of intimate photos by the perpetrator. Take screenshots, save links, and keep any physical proof that could be admissible in court.
Talk to your friends and family
While it might feel embarrassing, it's crucial to confide in loved ones you trust. They can provide emotional support and help with the legal procedures involved in seeking justice.
Notify the social media platform
All major platforms – Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, YouTube – have functions to report revenge porn. They'll want to assist you in removing the content.
Call the revenge porn helpline
In the UK, there's a dedicated helpline offering guidance and support. Call 0345 6000 459 (Monday to Friday, 10 am to 4 pm) or email [email protected] for free, confidential assistance.
Create "hashes" of your images
Use the innovative StopNCII platform to create unique identifiers ("hashes") of the images. This helps prevent their spread across social media and other online locations. The process is secure, with images never leaving your device, and you can upload the hashes to the Revenge Porn Helpline database. Please remember to only use the trusted official website, as many imitation (fake) sites have popped up in an attempt to collect users’ personal photos.
Contact the authorities
Revenge porn is a criminal offence. Don't hesitate to involve the police to ensure the perpetrator faces justice. Contact your local authorities to discuss your next steps.
Revenge porn can feel like a form of violation, where your body and intimacy are exploited without your consent. This experience can be extremely traumatic, but it's important to know that you have nothing to be ashamed of. The shame lies with the perpetrator. You can regain control of the situation by following the steps outlined above. Don't hesitate to consult the police or a solicitor for specialised advice tailored to your case. You're not alone, and there are resources available to help you through this ordeal.