All About the Clitoris: You Asked, We Answer

In this article, the LOVE Team will answer your most pressing questions about the clit. We’ll cover what the clit is, how it works, and how to make the most of it for maximum pleasure.

The clitoris is a female sexual organ located at the front of the vagina, right where the inner labia meet. While only a small part of your clit is visible to the eye, it’s actually much larger than you may think. Most of your clit is actually inside of you, with roots that extend around the urethra and vagina.

The clitoris is the most nerve-packed organ in the human body, with over 8,000 nerve endings, or about twice as many as the penis. This incredible sensitivity is what makes it so central to female pleasure. Unlike most genital organs, it has no reproductive function. Its only job? Pure stimulation.

There’s no one-size-fits-all approach when it comes to clitoral stimulation. Some prefer a gentle, drawn-out touch, while others enjoy faster, more intense movements. It all depends on what you like best. Here are some popular ways to stimulate this ultra-sensitive area.

Using fingers to gently rub or apply pressure to the clit is one of the most common methods of stimulation. Circular motions or a back-and-forth touch can feel particularly good.

Cunnilingus, or oral sex, is another highly effective way to stimulate the clitoris. Using a tongue will give your encounter a more intimate touch and allow the giver to experiment with different rhythms and intensities.

Sex toys can take clitoral stimulation to the next level and beyond. Here are a few of the most popular adult toys for your clit:

• Vibrators: Classic vibrators, including wand-style models, are designed to deliver targeted pleasure to your rosebud. With different shapes and vibration settings, they offer a range of exciting sensations.
• Contact-free clit stimulators: Instead of vibrations, these devices create a gentle sucking sensation around the clit, which many find intensely pleasurable.
• Clit pumps: These toys work by increasing blood flow to your clit, making it even more sensitive. They usually consist of a small cylinder placed over the area with a manual or electric pump to create a light feeling of suction. When used alone or with another type of stimulation, they can enhance the sensitivity of this already super-sensitive area and make your pleasure more acute.
• Bullet vibrators: For those who prefer something discreet but powerful, bullet vibrators offer strong stimulation in a compact size and can be used during solo play or sex.
  

Some positions offer better access to the clit, making it easier to focus on pleasure. Here are a few to try if you’re looking to heighten clitoral stimulation during sex.

A simple adjustment can make all the difference. Placing a pillow under the receiving partner’s hips will lift their pelvis slightly, bringing the clit into better contact with the partner’s pubic bone. This adds a pleasurable friction during penetration without changing from the classic missionary setup.

For those who enjoy a slow, intimate build-up, spooning is a great option. Lying side by side allows for close body contact and easy access for manual stimulation. The receiving partner can adjust their hips to increase the pressure they feel against their clit. The combination of penetration and direct clitoral stimulation will lead to stronger, more intense orgasms.

Placing a pillow under the hips during oral sex changes the angle, making the clitoris more accessible and easier to stimulate. This setup supports deeper, more consistent stimulation, which can lead to incredibly powerful orgasms.

Being on top puts the receiving partner in control, allowing them to adjust the angle and rhythm for maximum clitoral stimulation. Grinding against a partner’s pelvis can add extra friction, and there’s also the option to use hands or a toy for even more sensation.

Despite being a major player in female pleasure, there are still a good number of myths and misconceptions about the clit. Let’s clear up a few of the most common ones together.

Not exactly. While the external part is relatively small, the clit is much bigger than it looks. As we’ve already mentioned, most your clit is internal, with roots that extend deep around the urethra and vaginal walls.

Nope. The visible part of the clitoris typically measures between 1.50 and 3 inches, but since most of it is hidden inside your body, its full size varies from person to person.

Not at all. Some people prefer gentle, light touches, while others enjoy firmer, more direct stimulation. There’s no universal formula, which is why exploring personal preferences and communicating with a partner is key.

Sensitivity can change depending on the person, the moment, and even the menstrual cycle. If it feels less responsive, factors like stress, arousal levels, or even certain medical conditions could be at play.

Not necessarily. Too much or too intense stimulation can lead to the temporary desensitisation of your clit, making the experience less pleasurable. Mixing up different techniques, amounts of pressure, and rhythms helps keep things exciting without overwhelming the nerves.

Your clit, with its unique structure and incredible sensitivity, is a powerful source of pleasure. Understanding how it works, experimenting with different types of stimulation, and trying out positions that enhance the sensations you feel during sex play will open up new ways to experience pleasure.