How To Use a Condom
Posted on 01/06/2023 and updated on 03/06/2025 by Thomas
Ready for your first time, but feeling a little nervous and looking for some practical advice on how to use a condom? In this article, the LOVE Team will guide you step-by-step through the whole process. Read on and have fun!
1. Choose the perfect condom
There’s an incredibly wide range of condoms on the market. Before you rush to get it on, make sure you’ve picked a condom that’s well-adapted to your needs and your body. Size, material, texture and lubrication can all influence your comfort and pleasure levels during sex.
For example, you can get latex, or polyisoprene and polyurethane for those who are allergic to latex. Some options are thinner to help maximise sensations, whereas others are textured to give your partner added pleasure.
If you don’t know which ones to choose, the LOVE Team has prepared a thorough guide that’ll help you pick the perfect rubber. Take a look at our buyer’s guide “
How to Choose the Right Condom
”, that goes in depth on the different sizes, materials and options available to you, so you can be sure you’ve got the perfect protection to accompany you in your bedroom antics.
Taking even just a few minutes to pick the right condom will make your sex life safer and more satisfying.
2. Check your condom
It’s important to give your condom a good look before using it. What should you be looking for?
- Expiry date: The expiry date is always clearly visible, either on the box or on the wrapper itself. If your condom is expired, throw it out, as it may no longer be effective.
- Visual inspection: There should be no tears or holes in the condom.
- CE marking: Your condom must meet European safety standards.
- Point of sale: Always buy your condoms in pharmacies, supermarkets or reputable online retailers to ensure that your condoms have been stored in optimal conditions and meet essential safety standards.
Condoms should be kept under specific conditions. Avoid leaving them tucked away for too long in your wallet, car or any other place where they may be exposed to heat or friction, as this can weaken the latex. Ideally, you should be keeping your condoms in a cool, dry space.
3. Put on your condom
- Open the wrapper: Use only your hands, and especially not your teeth (or scissors), which could tear the condom. Remove the condom from the wrapper carefully. Be careful with long fingernails and sharp jewellery!
- Put the condom on: Position it the right way round, on top of the erect penis and pinch the reservoir to expel any air trapped inside (and prevent the condom from breaking).
- Unroll the condom: If it's fitted the right way round, you'll have no trouble unrolling the condom all the way to the base of the penis.
If you open it the wrong way by mistake, don’t roll it back the other way to use it. Since the inside could have already come into contact with bodily fluids, it’s best to open a new condom to ensure optimal protection.
4. Make sure the condom is on properly and that it’s the right size
Here’s how to find the right condom for you:
- Proper fit: A condom should not slip during sex, so make sure the size is not too large.
- Empty reservoir: Clearing the air out of the reservoir is a fundamental step (see above), so do not forget to do it.
- Comfort: A condom should feel like you’re wearing nothing at all and should not compress the penis. If it does, go up a size.
5. Use lube
Although condoms are often pre-lubricated, you can always use more during sex (and, especially during anal sex).
- Water-based or silicone-based lubricants are compatible with most condoms and will not damage them.
- Oil-based lubricants should never be used with a latex condom as they will damage the texture.
- Apply lube to your penis before and after putting on your condom.
6. Remove the condom
What if the condom breaks or slips off during sex? In this case, stop immediately and replace it with a new one. If there’s a risk of pregnancy or STIs, get in touch with a health professional who can guide you through the next possible steps, from emergency contraception to getting tested.
Using a condom protects you during sex, prevents unwanted pregnancy and shows respect for your partner. Using a condom will strengthen the bond between you and ensure an atmosphere of trust.