Pubic hair: What do men and women prefer?

In this article, the LOVE Team explores what men and women like best when it comes to pubic hair grooming. These preferences depend on fashion, health, and personal comfort. There is no one-size-fits-all answer, so it’s important to consider how these preferences play out in everyday life and in your intimate relationships.

Today, what's considered aesthetically pleasing or socially acceptable is heavily shaped by key influencers like media, fashion, and the pornography industry.

The media, often without our realising it, moulds our beauty standards. From magazines to social media, the archetypal “perfect” body is everywhere, subtly influencing our personal choices, including how we choose to groom our pubic hair. This constant exposure sets a standard that many feel pressured to meet.

Fashion also plays a significant role in shaping body image. Clothing trends that reveal more or less skin can drive preferences for specific pubic hair grooming practices. For example, high-cut bikini briefs and minimalist underwear have spurred a trend towards more extensive hair removal or intricately trimmed styles.

The impact of porn on pubic hair styling is undeniable. As porn usually showcases hairless intimate areas, it has helped promote the idea that less hair equates to cleanliness, sexiness, and desirability.

When it comes to pubic hair, everybody has a preference. Recent studies and anonymous testimonials have given us a bit of insight into pube preferences among men and women.

Recent research has shown that men have varied tastes when it comes to pubic hair, both for themselves and their partners. Some prefer minimal hair removal, valuing a natural look, while others opt for a bare look for aesthetic or personal comfort reasons.

One anonymous testimonial reveals, "I find less hair to be more pleasant both visually and to the touch. But that’s just me. Other men might like a bushier look."

Another shares a different view, "For me, pubic hair isn’t an issue. What matters is the personality and that my partner cares enough to take care of their body."

Statistics also show that there’s no one-answer-fits-all for women either. Some women like a bare look while others don’t even notice what’s going down there.

One woman explains, "I actually have never noticed a partner’s pubic hair. I actually think it would freak me out if he gave it too much thought. That’s too high maintenance for me." Another adds, "I need a bare man, especially if he expects me to venture down below, if you know what I mean."

Many healthcare professionals believe that the state of your pubic hair can have an impact on your health and well-being.

Properly caring for your pubic hair is not just about looking good; it’s also a question of hygiene and comfort. Regular grooming can reduce the risk of skin infections and reduce unwanted odours, for example. However, choosing the right hair removal method is important, as some techniques can lead to skin irritation, ingrown hairs, or other complications.

Experts advise handling the process gently, using products and tools that are appropriate for your skin type and sensitivity. For example, those who prefer shaving should use sharp blades and proper techniques to minimise cuts and irritation. When considering hair removal methods, selecting options that suit your skin sensitivity can help avoid adverse reactions.

In terms of hygiene, regular cleaning with mild products can keep the area healthy while maintaining the skin’s natural balance. You should be drying the area thoroughly after cleaning to prevent bacteria growth in moist conditions.

Personal comfort is also an important factor when it comes to choosing a pubic hair style. What is comfortable for one person might not be for another, affecting not only the choice of hair removal method but also how often it is performed.

While aesthetics are a personal matter, they should not take precedence over health and well-being. It’s up to you to find a balance between aesthetic preferences and healthy practices, as each body is unique and deserves to be treated with care and respect.

You should be asking yourself questions like, "Am I making this choice for myself, or to meet others' expectations?" and "How do I truly feel about my body?" These questions can help differentiate between what we think we want and what genuinely contributes to our well-being and self-esteem.

Saying "your body, your choice" is about valuing your personal decision-making when it comes to your physical appearance. Everyone should be embracing their own definition of comfort and aesthetics, free from external judgments. This approach not only promotes self-acceptance but also respects the choices of others, contributing to a more open and inclusive society.

The best method varies based on individual preferences, skin type, and grooming goals. Options include shaving, waxing, depilatory creams, and laser or electric hair removal. Each method has its pros and cons—for example, shaving is accessible but can lead to ingrown hairs, while laser hair removal offers longer-lasting results but requires a greater investment.

To minimise irritation and the risk of ingrown hairs, use a sharp razor, shave in the direction of hair growth, and apply a moisturising shaving gel. After shaving, applying a lotion or gel with aloe vera can soothe the skin. Gently exfoliating the area regularly can also help prevent ingrown hairs.

For shaving, choose razors designed for sensitive skin and hydrating shaving gels. If waxing, opt for products formulated for sensitive areas. For daily maintenance, prefer gentle cleansers and avoid scented products that might irritate. Light natural oils can be used to moisturise the skin and maintain its elasticity.

Depilatory creams can be used, but it's crucial to select formulas specifically designed for sensitive areas. Always perform a patch test on a small area to check your skin's reaction before more extensive application. Follow the instructions carefully to avoid chemical burns.

Laser hair removal provides a long-term reduction in hair growth, with many experiencing a significant decrease after several sessions. Drawbacks include the cost, the need for multiple treatments, and less effectiveness on very light hair or very dark skin. Consulting with a qualified professional can help determine if it’s the right option for you.

The way you choose to groom your pubic hair is a deeply personal journey, shaped by a mix of personal preferences, social norms, and health considerations. Ultimately, how you manage this intimate part of your body is entirely up to you. Whatever your decision, it’s the right one as long as it makes you happy and comfortable in your own skin. Embrace your individuality and respect others', for in the diversity of choices lies the beauty of the human experience.